In her memoir 'Something Lost, Something Gained,' Hillary Clinton reflects on her first encounter with Melania Trump during Rosalynn Carter's memorial service in November 2023, describing Melania as having a 'smiley but uncertain' demeanor that reminded her of a shy child at a party. Clinton noted she was unaware of Melania's attendance and expressed empathy for her awkward position given the past criticisms from Donald Trump towards the other former first ladies present. While Clinton emphasized that she does not hold a wife responsible for her husband's actions, she questioned Melania's potential complicity in his controversial behaviors. Clinton defended Melania's choice of attire at the service against criticism and recalled the warm interactions among the former first ladies, including gestures of kindness from Michelle Obama and Jill Biden. The memoir sheds light on Clinton's complex feelings regarding Melania Trump and the broader dynamics among presidential spouses. Clinton's reflections come as she promotes her new book, which was released on Tuesday.