Woman Nears Divorce After Husband's Daily Marijuana Use

A woman married for nearly 50 years is considering divorce due to her husband's daily marijuana use, which he describes as an addiction. Despite her objections and his doctor's reassurance that it is unlikely to be fatal, the husband continues to smoke, causing increasing frustration. Dear Abby advises the wife to consider the reasons behind the husband's use and her feelings, suggesting she might benefit from attending Nar-Anon meetings for insight before making any legal decisions. The advice emphasizes understanding whether marijuana use is a coping mechanism for relaxation or emotional relief. The letters highlight how such personal issues can strain long-term relationships and the importance of communication and support resources. This dilemma reflects broader questions about addiction, tolerance, and marital challenges in aging couples.