Michelle Obama Faces Backlash Over Encouraging Teenage Dating Before College

Michelle Obama and television writer Mara Brock Akil discussed the importance of teenagers, particularly Black youth, exploring romantic relationships before college in a podcast episode. They highlighted that many Black students in predominantly White environments enter college without prior dating experience, which they believe is unhealthy as it deprives them of learning how to navigate mutual romantic feelings and communication. Both emphasized that early relationships help young people develop emotional confidence and create opportunities to seek parental advice. However, their stance received backlash on social media, with critics arguing there is nothing wrong with not dating before college and expressing concerns about encouraging minor romance. Supporters, meanwhile, praised their perspective on the need for young Black individuals to feel valued and seen in relationships. The conversation also touched on the broader social dynamics that contribute to the lack of early romantic experiences among Black youth in majority-White schools.