Paul O'Grady's Grave Receives Headstone After Two-and-a-Half Years

Paul O'Grady, the beloved TV presenter and drag performer, passed away in 2023 at age 67 from sudden cardiac arrhythmia, and his grave in St. Rumwold's Churchyard, Bonnington, Kent, was without a headstone for over two years due to a lengthy application process. His widow, Andre Portasio, announced that the final design of his headstone has now been placed, featuring Paul's name alongside that of his long-term partner Brendan Murphy, who died in 2005, fulfilling Paul's wish to be buried alongside him. The headstone also includes a figurine of Paul's dog Buster and one of his favorite quotes from Michel de Montaigne: "The greatest thing in the world is to know how to be one's own self." Portasio expressed gratitude to the Diocese of Canterbury and the Church of St. Rumwold for approving the design and shared that while he misses Paul dearly, he is grateful the resting place is now complete. Fans and friends have reacted emotionally to the headstone, appreciating the inclusion of Brendan's name and the thoughtful design. Paul O'Grady was widely known for his drag persona Lily Savage and his popular television work, including "Paul O'Grady: For the Love of Dogs."