Nelly Refuses Diaper Duty Amid Tour, Sparks Parenting Debate

In the reality series 'Nelly & Ashanti: We Belong Together,' tensions arise as Ashanti expresses frustration over Nelly's lack of involvement in caring for their infant son, Kareem. Nelly openly admits he does not plan to change diapers or attend to the baby until Kareem can communicate his needs, stating, 'I ain’t got nothing for him' during Ashanti's solo caregiving while he tours. He also claims a 'gift' for sleeping through the baby's cries, which Ashanti finds exasperating. Despite this, Nelly asserts in interviews that he financially supports Ashanti and their child fully, including hiring help if needed. The couple's differing parenting styles and Nelly's self-described 'cruise control' approach have sparked significant social media backlash, with fans criticizing his hands-off stance while others defend his honesty and provision. Their dynamic highlights the challenges new parents face when juggling careers and childcare, especially with contrasting expectations about fatherly involvement.