Jennifer Lopez's first husband, Ojani Noa, has resurfaced with advice and reflections on their brief marriage amid her fourth divorce from Ben Affleck. Noa, who was married to Lopez for less than a year in the late '90s, suggested that Lopez should stay single for a while and keep future relationships private. He reminisced about their simple life together before her fame skyrocketed, claiming her career ambitions overshadowed their relationship. Noa also hinted that Lopez's love for media attention contributed to their marriage's downfall. Despite their turbulent past, Noa expressed no ill feelings towards Lopez and sympathized with her current situation. He emphasized the importance of quality time and being true to oneself in relationships.